Client Comments

From Divorce Clients:

Deb Naiditch "I am unable to express in words all the respect and gratitude I feel toward the ways in which you are a guide through such a difficult transition. Your ethics and caring shine bright. . . you were extraordinarily kind and patient with us." 

Nancy Anderson, M.A. "I wanted to say a major big thank-you for your considerable assistance in the process. You helped me be able to start to let go of the marriage . . . You are doing wonderful work, Dan, and I am grateful for having found you!"

Divorce Client (Wife): "I want to let you know that (John) and I decided not to divorce or separate and are now doing well together! This is wonderful for both of us and best of all, for our kids.  And the time with you was helpful in a host of ways ... intangible and tangible. It brought a reality to our relationship conflict and forced really taking a look at our lives from different angles.  Carry on with the good work ... please keep it true to your cause."  

Mike Beery "You were just exactly what we needed. You cleared up our concerns. We left able to handle the entire process without the need to bring in lawyers. We owe you a big thanks."

Laura Von Lange "You did things that I didn't think were possible. I went in not expecting anything but came out feeling pretty good. Again, thank you."  

P.C. "Thank you so much for your help. Your kind and gentle style has been an essential ingredient to our non-adversarial divorce. You allowed us, and especially [my wife], to show sadness and feelings, and at the same time, gently kept a focus on the financial aspects of a fair and equitable settlement. Quite a difficult job and you are very good at it."

K.E. "If you ever need to use our case as a reference on how the process works without huge lawyer fees, please feel free to call me. This is a far cry away from the $10's of thousands most people pay when children are involved. I think your approach to focus on the parenting agreement first helped get (Jane) comfortable with the process."

Divorce Client (Husband): "Thank you for taking the added effort to meet with us after our scheduling error.  It reflects well on your commitment to easing the process for your clients.  Your input and calming manner in redirecting questions and clarifying positions accomplished my main goal of a meeting in which both parties were able to check emotions and settle differences. From past experience between my wife and me I believe this would not have otherwise been possible.  I won't hesitate to recommend your services to others in need of mediation."

D.I. "I thought we had a good session last night. It's never easy, but you made it as comfortable as could be expected. As I may have mentioned, you are a consummate professional and (Jane) agrees. Thanks for your help with 'our' problem."

Sara (Divorce Client): "Your advice and pleasant demeanor made this a lot easier to do.  I will certainly pass your name on to anyone I know who is getting divorced."

Divorce Client (Wife): "And I would also like to thank you for a job well done.  You were a great buffer for us and made an emotional situation much easier to deal with.   I, too, will recommend you to anyone I know who goes through this."

B.M.: "I truly appreciate all that you've done and will definitely think of you in the future, if needed by myself or others. You are very good at what you do."

Q.T.: "I don't know if you have already heard from elsewhere or not, but (John) and I did reach a settlement. Thank you for all your help. I hope you continue to enjoy and be successful in your practice."

E.P. "Thank you so much for your help and generosity. I will get in touch with (John) and should we run into any obstacles, we will absolutely call you. I will also do what I can to refer you and sing your business' praises to people in the Twin Cities. Will let you know how things turn out. Best Regards, E.P."

From Business Dispute Clients

L.M., as quoted in Minnesota Law & Politics, Feb. 2000: "There was a larger emotional and psychological issue that had to be dealt with besides the legal issues that was bringing me to court. Dan allowed us to talk to each other. It was mysterious how Dan did it but he knew when and how to come in and guide us. I believe in the humanity of this process."Click here for the full text of this article.

K.M.: "Just a note to say thanks for leading us to a resolution. We have agreed to an arrangement with (John) and the deal is signed and the stock buy-out has been completed. I am hopeful things can go smoothly going forward. Again, thanks for your help. I'll keep you in mind for referral possibilities."

From a therapist who refers couples to me:

Betsy Sansby, MS, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist "I recently had a phone consultation with another mediator who was working with one of my clients. From the moment we got on the phone, the guy never stopped talking. No wonder my client felt overwhelmed in his presence. When you consult with Dan Simon, he never stops listening. This is what distressed couples need. They do not need another person talking at them or pressuring them into making critical decisions about their lives before they're ready."